Looking back to the beginning times and the first book of the bible (Genesis chapter 3) . We can simply state that women are the cause of all the problems the world face right now. If only Eve resisted temptation, if only she did not convince Adam to eat from the tree too WON'T OUR LIVES AND THIS WORLD BE BETTER. Do not get me wrong, Eve is not to be solely blamed for what happened because Adam knew better and as a truly obedient child, made in God's IMAGE, he should have stood his grounds and told Eve NO.
Moreover, we can not dwell in that. Women were cursed and God said "to woman I will greatly multiply your grief and your suffering in pregnancy and the pains of childbearing." also that husbands will rule over us." (Genesis 3 vs 16). However, in the new testament after our savior (JESUS CHRIST) came we were redeemed and saved out of foolery, ignorance, greed, disobedience, deceit, and curiosity that once led to man's destruction. In the book of (1 Timothy 2 vs 15) it mentions how we were once cursed but we will be saved ETERNALLY if we continue in FAITH, LOVE, HOLINESS and SELF-CONTROL. Also that we will, and can be saved through what was once a curse to produce a DIVINE CHILD.
Let me make this clearer. Check yourself WOMEN, LADIES, and GIRLS who have been chosen, called and decided to walk in the light of God. The devil set out for us DESTRUCTION but because of God's LOVE, MERCY and GRACE we are saved to be renewed and redeemed. Therefore, what the devil has planned and is working on to happen in our lives will not prevail. But we need to TRUST and OBEY the Lord wholeheartedly.
Women of God need to do things acceptable in God's sight. They have to live lives that are pleasing and models how God's love and personality is. Doing this gives other good ways and examples to follow. They have to stop worrying about worldly things and vanity e.g money, beauty, cars, make-up, hair, and clothes. In (Proverbs 31:30) "Charm is deceitful, Beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord is to be highly praised".
Women especially ladies have to have self-control. They have to save their selves for marriage and not defile the temple of the lord. They also need to control and dress in MODEST ways (1 Timothy 2 vs 9). Ladies, women and girls have to dress in ways that do not cause another man to sin or think of sin. If your dressing is always exposing your cleavage or other private parts Check YOURSELF. Why do you do these things? Ask God to give you strength and most importantly start to live it out. Firstly, by going through your clothes and getting rid of those clothes. Only buying clothes that are appropriate, holy and decent especially in God's eyes and yours because walking in the light you see things as God will see it. Through the (HOLY SPIRIT). If you can not do so Check YOUR HEART. DO you really love yourself? and most especially DO you LOVE GOD if not, you need to pray and ask God for his guidance, courage and power to do things according to his ways. While doing this you will find out and see your life will be very different.
Women are to be LOVING and especially have FAITH in God. They should believe in his ways and know they were created to be helpers and wisdom to the man. So, when they do get married they should be submissive to their husbands. Keep in mind that the husband you marry or will marry one day is God ordained. However, if you do not follow proper guidelines to choose you will will be mismatched. Take time and find yourself in CHRIST and then you will be lead and your Better half, Partner, Helpmate, Mr. Right, Second Half, Soul Mate, and Bae as we may all call him.
PRAY CONTINUALLY AND WORK ON YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. Ask HIM what is your plan for my life. Do not get misled again like Eve did by the devil. Yes the devil is still out there. He is there in human forms, things, choices, thoughts and reactions we come across on a daily basis. Therefore, Shield yourself with the WORD OF GOD (BIBLE) and seek for better understanding and wisdom. We are strong creations and without us Men are not able to live. We co-exist together. So, if there is a man distracting or derailing you from concentrating on God's purpose and Will for your life, You need to CLEANSE HOUSE. GET RID OF THE BAGGAGE AND FOCUS ON YOU. Eventually, later you will be ready to court and date to select the right man God has created for you. Adam was without Eve for a while and God saw he needed her so he made her. Let that be the same for your situation. LET GOD'S WILL BE DONE.
Seek and Ask God to send you your Adam a man created and designed JUST FOR YOU. DO not Settle, Accept or Be with anyone that is not God chosen and sealed together for you. Knowing in the book of 2 Corinthians 6 vs 14 that we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. There is no connection with light and darkness or even right or wrong. Read 1 Corinthians 15 vs 33 simply saying bad and evil company corrupts good morals, behaviors and manners. CHOOSE FRIENDS WISELY SO YOU DO NOT BE MISLEAD AND DECEIVED. I pray that God will Open up a Heart and Mind of the people who read this post to WALK IN THE LIGHT. Leave the darkness and let God's light shine on and through your life. Stay HOLY, RIGHTEOUS and GODLY. Also check out my sister's blog souledoutsisterp.blogspot.com. "Two is better than one." Love you all but remember no one in this life will ever LOVE you more than God.